Thursday, August 28, 2014

success

Money of course isn't everything. Not by a long shot. Where your definition of success is concerned, money may rank far down the list. Everyone’s definition of “success” is different. Here's mine:
"Success is making those that believed in you look brilliant."
For me, money doesn't matter all that much, but I'll confess, it did at one time (probably because I didn't have very much). So, let’s say money is on your list. And let’s say, like millions of other people, that you’d like to be a millionaire. What kinds of things should you do to increase your chances of joining the millionaire's club?
Here are the steps I'd suggest. They're neither fast nor easy. But, they're more likely to work than the quick and easy path.

1. Stop obsessing about money.

While it sounds counterintuitive, maintaining a laser-like focus on how much you make distracts you from doing the things that truly contribute to building and growing wealth. So shift your perspective.
"See money not as the primary goal but as a by-product of doing the right things."

2. Start tracking how many people you help, even in a very small way.

The most successful people I know – both financially and in other ways – are shockingly helpful. They’re incredibly good at understanding other people and helping them achieve their goals. They know their success is ultimately based on the success of the people around them.
So they work hard to make other people successful: their employees, their customers, their vendors and suppliers… because they know, if they can do that, then their own success will surely follow.
And they will have built a business – or a career – they can be truly proud of.

3. Stop thinking about making a million dollars and start thinking about serving a million people.

When you only have a few customers and your goal is to make a lot of money, you’re incented to find ways to wring every last dollar out of those customers.
But when you find a way to serve a million people, many other benefits follow. The effect of word of mouth is greatly magnified. The feedback you receive is exponentially greater – and so are your opportunities to improve your products and services. You get to hire more employees and benefit from their experience, their skills, and their overall awesomeness.
And, in time, your business becomes something you never dreamed of – because your customers and your employees have taken you to places you couldn’t even imagine.
Serve a million people – and serve them incredibly well – and the money will follow.

4. See making money as a way to make more things.

Generally speaking there are two types of people.
One makes things because they want to make money; the more things they make, the more money they make. What they make doesn’t really matter that much to them – they’ll make anything as long as it pays.
The other wants to make money because it allows them to make more things. They want to improve their product. They want to extend their line. The want to create another book, another song, another movie. They love what they make and they see making money as a way to do even more of what they love. They dream of building a company that makes the best things possible … and making money is the way to fuel that dream and build that company they love.
While it is certainly possible to find that one product that everyone wants and grow rich by selling that product, most successful businesses evolve and grow and as they make money, reinvest that money in a relentless pursuit of excellence.
"We don't make movies to make money, we make money to make more movies." ~Walt Disney

5. Do one thing better.

Pick one thing you're already better at than most people.Just. One. Thing. Become maniacally focused at doing that one thing. Work. Train. Learn. Practice. Evaluate. Refine. Be ruthlessly self-critical, not in a masochistic way but to ensure you continue to work to improve every aspect of that one thing.
Financially successful people do at least one thing better than just about everyone around them. (Of course it helps if you pick something to be great at that the world also values – and will pay for.)
Excellence is its own reward, but excellence also commands higher pay – and greater respect, greater feelings of self-worth, greater fulfillment, a greater sense of achievement… all of which make you rich in non-monetary terms.
Win-win.

6. Make a list of the world’s ten best people at that one thing.

How did you pick those ten? How did you determine who was the “best”? How did you measure their “success”?
Use those criteria to track your own progress towards becoming the best.
If you're an author it could be Amazon rankings. If you’re a musician it could be iTunes downloads. If you’re a programmer, it could be the number of people that use your software. If you’re a leader it could be the number of people you train and develop who move on to bigger and better things. If you’re an online retailer it could be purchases per visitor, or on-time shipping, or conversion rate…
Don’t just admire successful people. Take a close look at what makes them successful. Then use those criteria to help create your own measures of success. And then…

7. Consistently track your progress.

We tend to become what we measure, so track your progress at least once a week against your key measures.
Maybe you’ll measure how many people you’ve helped. Maybe you’ll measure how many customers you’ve served. Maybe you’ll evaluate the key steps on your journey to becoming the world’s best at one thing.
Maybe it’s a combination of those things, and more.

8. Build routines that ensure progress.

Never forget that achieving a goal is based on creating routines. Say you want to write a 200-page book; that’s your goal. Your system to achieve that goal could be to write 4 pages a day; that’s your routine. Wishing and hoping won’t get you to a finished manuscript, but sticking faithfully to your routine ensures you reach your goal.
Or say you want to land 100 new customers through inbound marketing. That’s your goal; your routine is to create new content, new videos, new podcasts, new white papers, etc. on whatever schedule you set. Stick to that routine and meet your deadlines and if your content is great you will land those new customers.
Wishing and hoping won’t get you there – sticking faithfully to your routine will.
Set goals, create routines that support those goals, and then ruthlessly track your progress. Fix what doesn’t work. Improve and repeat what does work. Refine and revise and adapt and work hard every day to be better than you were yesterday.
Soon you’ll be good. Then you’ll be great. And one day you’ll be world-class.
And then, probably without even noticing, you’ll also be a millionaire. You know, if you like that sort of thing.

Sunday, August 17, 2014

August 17 2014



Since i'm here for work purpose, i decided to visit an old friend of mine that stay in menglembu

We dont talk much but have known each other for almost 10 years

i was excited in meeting this old friend of mine.. we end up having dinner together at a nearby pasar malam / night mart

of course we end up buying a bunch of mangosteen, banana and jackfruit.

LOL

and we end up talking a lot, especially on his relationship

to be honest, i'm like the worst person he can go to for relationship opinion or advise

he says he is not sure if he should continue the relationship

stating when they have argument their relationship is bad

but when things r good, it's very good

That to me personally, i do not think its a relationship

relationship suppose to be good even when the situation is bad or when there is argument

of course when its good, it suppose to be good

of course, it is not easy to find a compatible one nowadays

but then compatibility is not to be found, but to be compromise and to work it out together

not to fight and beg forgiveness like a beggar

that is to love and be love

so either my friend and her gf r not meant to be together or they r just not mature enough for a serious relationship


Thursday, August 14, 2014

augist 14 2014(ii)

To be fair, i am busy living my life for i believe life is an experience. I believe in working to attain what i want in life. Having a lot of women in my life is not something that i want.

not to sound gay but i think there's more in life than just having a women on your left and right.

put it this way, everybody want something in their life. Knowing what you want is the easy part, knowing how to get it and keep it is another thing.

few example

-i want a relationship. (that is easy), but to get a relationship with the right person is not easy and keeping it going is even harder

-i want to be rich (that is also easy), but knowing the way to riches and how to maintain the rich status, that is hard

Often people tell me what they want, that i heard a lot and find it to be just a speech. How many people really know what they want and how to attain it.

i trust if you know how to attain what you want, be strong, be bold and never ever gave up

eventually you will end up with what you want

augist 14 2014

work

- some colleague come and go, for those that left and went to our competitor. I always believe in work there is constant trouble shooting. No work means no problem.. there tend to have problem arise here and there. Those left that believe they are the main drive in our company's sales, is so wrong for they forget the very fundamental in sales industry. Aggression and hardworking. You really can't go anywhere without being hardworking. Hardworking does not equal to 8 hours work a day, 5 days a week. That's more like 12 hours a day, seven days a week.



martial art

-i enroll in this friendly muay thai competition. Fair enough during practice i got knockout. LOL. first time for me.. but i always says this, i know i will get my ass kick but he going to have to kick every single breath out of me for me to stay down. I also know i will be tear form limb to limb, i however recommend he start from my fingers because i'm giving him my middle finger. I'm 30, so lets bring it on and its not like i can do this every year.



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Tuesday, August 5, 2014

how inspiring is this

大馬10大创业百萬富翁!他們28嵗前已經賺取自己的第一桶金!他們自己賺錢 自己花!這才是我們值得學習的對象!

1. Ranson Chi ( Professional Financial Planner + Entrepreneur )




2. Bryan Loo ( CEO of Chatime )




3. Pattern Tan ( Professional Financial Planner )




4. Joey Yap ( Founder of the Mastery Academy of Chinese Metaphysics )




5. Calvin Liew ( Founder of DF Property )



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6. Steven Lai ( Founder of Steven&Co & VogueGroup )




7. Guo Jing Toh ( Entrepreneur )




8. Ellis Gan ( Entrepreneur )




9. Joel Neoh ( CEO of Groupon )





10. Andrew Ngo ( Founder of 18inspiration )




看了后是不是想更努力地賺更多錢?他們的家庭背景都不比其他人那麽幸運那麽富有 但他們覺得改變自己的命運 所以他們選擇把他們自己的家庭便富有 選擇永遠在自己手中 加油吧!


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