feb 28 (ii)

Sadly the reason that quote is shit because a veary large section of those women are continuously looking for the next best thing even when they have a great person right in front of them,doing exactly what a man is supposed to do, unfortunately now a days women are so quick to just replace u as soon as they perceive that someone is better standing right behind the good guy - Gary keniston

看看这个小故事吧

多年以后，你会属于谁？

its really okay or me



i will find myself behind all the mask

u??

who already found something.. best wishes

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feb 28

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something that is already up long long time ago... meaningful indeed



something that worth remembering...

:)

thank you

feb 28

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i couldn't have agree more... like there is a wrong in speaking my mind in my very own little space

damn those retards

feb 27 (ii)

feb 27

inspire

two inspiring meme....

my opinion

i had a conversation today, a friendly conversation..

there are many types of people in the world, and i am one of the types that will voice out my opinions if i find something dis-oriented from my point of view thus the very familiar statement

"people label you as being show off and you should stay low"

depending on situation and people, if its some random guys statement i would normally nod and smile while saying that i probably over do it however here in my very own space, i wanted to say that is a funny statement

i always believe people are entitle to share their success story or their happiness for instances:

1) if a person got their first child, a happy story that should be share

2) if a person buying a new house, big or small.. should be celebrated

3) got a promotion

4) got a datukship

5) graduation

6) starting own businesses

however, me who basically does not have much happiness to share except work has decided to do so, will be label as show off... like seriously?? but then i also tend to agree the statement when a hated individual does anything.. it will always attract negative.. if thats the stance why don't they change the statement to this

"i don't like him simply because i hated his guts, thus whatever things he does will come off ugly and also arrogant"

at least you are justifying that you hate me

rather than go by saying this

"i think he is a show off lor, thinking he very smart lor, wah! want to show what oh, sau pei la"

seriously??

then coming off as saying what i should do and how i should act

again.. am i doing anything bad or harmful?? did i hurt anyone physically or did i cheat anybody off their life saving??

i believe everybody should preserve their own thinking and also dream in a legal way, and not make everybody think the same. i question things that i don't understand not trying to be rude. I speak up for i believe in exchanging opinions or judgement. I believe in sharing happiness or success story because why then we work so hard to achieve something if we cant share it out (it does not matter people care or do not care, at least to that individual he felt motivated to do more)..

we can we achieve by going around label other people and giving them tags simply because we hated that individual.. the world is so small that sometimes we end up meeting each other again.

i had my fair share of enemies that i created when i was a young boy once.. though i probably have some more now..

i don't feel i need to write a report to others justifying my act.. because i did not break the law nor did i do anything harmful..

i understand the need to wear a mask to please the society, who then will please our self? some says BFF, and many more

i learn from this man himself and he taught me one thing..

"we cannot please everybody, its better we stay focus on what we want and on our goals rather than let their rumors or statement get into us"

it is until a while ago, i understand this

i still firmly believe that we human are made out of flesh and blood.. and is still the only creature in the world that shed tears because of emotions, we tend to get carried away by emotions..

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this statement still echo through my head

"your action already shows your priority and unfortunately work is your priority, you only talked about work"

of course many other things are equally important... health, family etc

i however think we who are still young should really go all out to build our career.. as a man

when we are poor we got label

when we do well we got label

people talk all the time..

we can't control their mouth.. and i always tell myself when i heard this statement

"at least got something can show off ba.. no need to get to upset over it"



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as for personal matter..

still got many things to learn

however i'm getting tired of city life.. happen too much and too fast, i'm just riding the wave now.. there will be a point where i want it to stop and just sit by the beach, looking at the wave instead of riding it then



one day... i still dream of the day i c my kid riding the bicycle in the yard...



doing it the left and right way...lol.. yeah... the left and right way...

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more to learn

more to learn....  so much more to learn

both in personal and also work...

funy people

funny people giving opinions and judgement without first knowing the whole thing, we called this judging a book by its cover..

that is so wrong

candy crush

damn you candy crush... stuck at level 65, has not been moving for days

crap.....

feb 21 2012

Thursday and we started work five days ago

We had successful annual dinner though its missing something from many years before, i consider this year to be a success... We have not even past the fifteen days of Chinese new year and everyone is so rally to go this year, securing full appointments for the month of march, efficiency at its best and i'm surprise in a good way of how well this current team is performing.

We will be organizing our first retreat, a company event that for the first time been welcome by all of our colleagues.

I knew this is our year

though there are few unhappy things that is going on... i determine to put it aside and just focus on things step by step.. i met with two individual today.. two out-standing individual i would put it

i learn so much about doing business from these two men, very importantly.. i also learn what should be done  when speaking to them.. It is a competitive conversation and could have easily drawn to the back if i did not constantly update myself

each profession has its very own topic as it seems

there are groups of people where they speak of investment dealing on properties and politics

then there are groups of people who speak on business opportunities and how they lower their risk while maximizing their profit

then of course there are people who speak of life philosophy and silly things

while others talk about rumors, games or simply things that doesn't uses their brain

no right or wrong

but i learned on how to be tactful and listen well...

i am an individual who perform exceptionally bad dealing in relationship or personal matter... my experience speaks so loud it drown out all praises.. i said this many times before i don't feel oblige to answer anyone regarding my personal matter, i however choose to speak out on my opinion if i do not understand certain things or issue.. as taught in secondary and primary school we should have an attitude of "ingin tahu"

curiosity drives a man forward

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This has been an event-less Chines New Year.. It doesn't bother me too much for i think we are in this world  to understand life and we will continue to live until we understand them..

Earlier i had a chat with a man and he taught me so many things about investment and also how to earn more income.. I still agree that money is important but i no longer feel a big need for it.. maybe because i felt that i'm already in the right direction

i always say, its not about earning 10,000 per month or 5,000 per month but justifying the figure... If i had put in 2 hours of work and is getting paid at RM 40, i considered that as decent but if i put in 2 hours of work and is getting paid at RM 200, i considered that as justified.

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What then is bothering me??

life is all about constant trouble shooting.. and has its own share of ups and downs.. but rather than focus on what hurt me most, i might as well focus on building a good character and weed out those bad attitudes

and i always share this too, so long with the right attitude.. anything is possible

There are many IF and WHY in this world.. however with each mistake comes with maturity and being wise.. I began meeting people who fail tremendously on career as well as personal matter.. everyone has their own fair share of problems.. its how we stand back up and moving forward that matter the most

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My mom keep nagging and few aunt keep giving advises

i appreciated but i don't need any..

i get it myself when the time is here..

right now i am neither happy nor sad.. i'm not lost either.. i am that raw fruit that is maturing

some do it faster, some do it slower.. i have spend a lot of time maturing on my business, time to slow down and sort out my personal life...

i need no super luxury life.. but a nice cozy one is enough..

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Note to myself,

Just focus on building my very own weakness while flexing my muscle in the business world. Everything will work out with right attitude. No need to reveal anything, keeping my shut. There is no need to bother a single thing what others say because keeping low profile is a good thing.

I began to want some privacy in my life

I seek her hand a bit too early and thus causes much arguments but its okay.. as said, i'm still in this world to learn about life and i am not an inch closer to what i am suppose to learn

until the ocean doesn't touches the sand... there are certain things which will remain THAT important

rich second generation

Being the only son of international movie star Jackie Chan clearly comes with many privileges and advantages. Jackie Chan's only child, a 30 year old son named Jaycee, lived a life filled with opulent mansions, luxurious vacations, expensive cars, the best education and much more. Jaycee was even been able to launch his very own singing and acting career thanks to his famous father. But there is one important thing that Jaycee will not receive from his father. Jackie Chan recently announced that upon his death, he will donate 100% of his $130 million fortune to charity and that his son Jaycee will be left out entirely…

While accepting an award in Beijing, Jackie was asked if Jaycee will inherit his massive fortune some day. Jackie stated that he was originally intending to donate half of his wealth to charity and leaving his family the other half but recently changed his will to leave 100% for charitable causes throughout the world. The elder Chan explained: "If he is capable, he can make his own money. If he is not, then he will just be wasting my money." Jackie also expressed regret for not sending Jaycee to the army where his son would have received "life experience and character."

If Jaycee wants to continue living an extravagant lifestyle, his career is going to need a boost. Since 2004 Jaycee has appeared in around 20 films, most of which have been major flops. Jaycee's 2012 movie "Double Trouble" became one of the biggest box office failures in history grossing just $9000 at the box office, despite heavy marketing and promotion. He also starred alongside his father in 2010′s "1911″ which became Jackie's worst performing movie ever.

Jackie is not the only celebrity who plans on giving their fortune to charity instead of their children.Warren Buffett, Bill Gates and Ebay founder Pierre Omidyar are some of the more notable billionaires who have pledged their entire fortunes to charity. Buffett is an especially staunch opponent of what he calls "dynastic wealth" (wealth that is so vast it creates generational dynasties). Buffett refers to anyone who grew up wealthy as a "member of the lucky sperm club" and, like Jackie Chan, firmly believes that if his children work hard enough they can achieve great success the same way he did.

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i couldn't have agree more.. what rich second generation, building something from ground zero and something that is already there, is so different

a philosophy that should be adopt by many

we owe our life to ourselves and we should do our best in achieving something. Enjoying life is one thing, that is after we achieve something. As a descendant of dragon, we should achieve what been taught by our ancestors. We don't compromise on hard work. Period

CNY

happy Chinese new year

this is will be an interesting Chinese new year, lonely i would say

nevertheless... its Okay

:)

happy Chinese new year to all

bonus

i'm happy though not many people to share... i kept it in me... just found that someone to share about my happiness when i finally get my bonus

i'm very happy... all those years of pure hard work finally is here..

though it's not much, i expect higher.. i'm already satisfied.

4 years of pure hard work... wow.. though last year is better, the bonus at least make up back to the effort that i have put in...

:)

royal rumble 2013

Awesome royal rumble with Team Bring It winning the championship........

Feb 2 2013

many things that had occur and for this year, i would want to focus on completing my PHD and also improving myself

few days ago as i start getting my studies on track "again" i spoke to one of my master's classmate.. initially to get some help and also information but the meeting turn out to be more than just "hey, how u been doing"

we talked more

we spoke about education, our life philosophy (lol), our goals and aim, politics, religion and also retirement

i was never the type of guy that when having conversation, talk about games, sports, girls, gossips, or silly things that doesn't go anywhere, nor do i like listening much to people talking about their dreams but have no clue on how to achieve it (i called those omong-omong kosong)

anyway, he spoke to me about retirement... he's 45 and i'm 29 by the way.. though it's a bit far fetch for me to talk about retirement, i replied that i have no intention on retiring. His eyes widen and said that we should all be enjoying our life and not work till we die... i agree, however who say work has to be a pain in the ass...

though workload is heavy initially, it will be easy as time goes by.. and by the way, i am enjoying my work.. it was never my intention to retire early but it is in my plan to have an easy workload later in life

its then we spoke of salary, bonuses, properties, shares, investments and also businesses

i gave him my honest opinion in a very businessman point of view.. let's just say we agree to disagree

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i came to my own realization that when we no longer chase money, it is then we start to appreciate nature and things we like to do.. money is very important however, when we no longer need to get headache because of it.. stepping out of the rat race for a moment let us see things very differently

i'm not the type that try to convince myself that money is secondary.. it is very important, people kill for it, people cheat for it, and family bond break because of it.. 

so long as mindset is right... whatever things we do will also be right, that is important above anything else

a primary school mate msg me via fb today and asked me about a job

i feel a bit bad for him that he is going nowhere... and he is already 29

i offered him a position in my company, i'm not sure what will happen or how it will goes but i hope with the right attitude, he can change his living lifestyle

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persistence and hard work is so important too.. 

i have seen many people in their 30's or going into their 30's still floating around... not knowing where to go or what to do.. 

To Ms. Dolce,

Waste time in self-improvement and not on peers that make your life stationary. If you have lost your way, engage in topics that makes you think critically,it will let you find your way again. Don't underestimate the power of our will and brain. Don't waste time on silly things. However i know eventually it will work out for you as you tend to always find the way.

I will be there if you ever turn around

:)

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i am of course never the smartest people around but at least i am a person who never stop trying to improve myself.. i might sound odd and out of this planet.. sometimes with a bad anger management however i knew with the current work rate... i will able to do better next time around.. 

a week to go before i stop being a vegan

definitely would want to do this in the long run.. 

Yes, Yes, Yes

bruno mars : when i was your man

When our friends talk about you all that it does is just tear me down
Cause my heart breaks a little when I hear your name
And it all just sound like uh, uh, uh

Hmmm too young, too dumb to realize
That I should have bought you flowers and held your hand
Should have gave you all my hours when I had the chance
Take you to every party cause all you wanted to do was dance
Now my baby is dancing, but she's dancing with another man.

My pride, my ego, my needs and my selfish ways
Caused a good strong woman like you to walk out my life
Now I never, never get to clean up the mess I made
And it haunts me every time I close my eyes
It all just sounds like uh, uh, uh, uh

Too young, too dumb to realize
That I should have bought you flowers and held your hand
Should have gave all my hours when I had the chance
Take you to every party cause all you wanted to do was dance
Now my baby is dancing, but she's dancing with another man.

Although it hurts I'll be the first to say that I was wrong
Oh, I know I'm probably much too late
To try and apologize for my mistakes
But I just want you to know
I hope he buys you flowers, I hope he holds your hand
Give you all his hours when he has the chance
Take you to every party cause I remember how much you loved to dance
Do all the things I should have done when I was your man!
Do all the things I should have done when I was your man!